During the week, I got a call from my ex. I
wondered why he was calling me. I didn’t
pick the first time, but he called back and I
picked it. He started with this apology speech.
He spent close to 10min apologizing.
I told him I did not have anything against him,
I believe everything that happened between us
happened because we are never meant to be.
If we are meant to be together, then he
wouldn’t leave me for someone else. But I
was surprised at his response.
“No no no, don’t say that, we are meant to be,
it’s the devil’s work”
“Devil’s work indeed” I hissed
“That girl hypnotized me, I wasn’t in my right
“Tunde will you please spare me all this
sermon. I have things to do”
“ Please don’t hang up on me, I’m very sorry.
Pamilerin please I want you back in my life.
“ Now you make me laugh, what happened to
your golden girlfriend?”
“She’s no longer in my life, she almost
destroyed me. Antonia is not a wife material
at all, she’s a gold digger”
“So I’m now your rebound girl right, you are
my past and I want you to remain there.
Please find yourself another girl cos the
number you just dialed it’s not available”
“Pamilerin, please…. OK let’s meet and talk
“I’m sorry I can’t meet with you, I don’t have
that luxury of time”
“Pamilerin, I know have wronged you, I made
a mistake please forgive me this time. You
can yell at me, you can even hit me. I just
want you back in my life”
“That will never happen, not in this life, not
even in the next”
“Pamilerin please don’t say that, I still love
you…I never stopped loving you” he pleaded.
“Tunde! In Justin Beiber’s voice: Go…and…
love… yourself, I don’t care about you
anymore, I’ve moved on and you should do
“You don’t like Pamilekun,do you suddenly
became a dullard, because the last time I
checked you are the second best student in
my set. It’s like you’ve forgotten everything
you did to me or you need me to refresh your
“I know, I now realized my mistake, it’s just
that I still love you, no other woman can
understand me the way you do”
“Since you refuse to understand a simple
English that it’s over between us, then I need
to press the red button” I said and
disconnected the call.
That day I was so pissed, he ruined my mood
that day. Tunde’s call opened a fresh wound.
Daniel called later in the day, he noticed I
wasn’t in a right state of mind. He ask what
the problem was. Initially I told him it’s
nothing, but he pestered me so much that I
eventually opened up to him.
“I don’t think that guy what all this stress you
are putting yourself through” he said.
“I know, but he made me remembered
everything I went through in his hands, I
mean he treated me like a piece of thrash”
“Do you still love him?”
“That will make me the dumbest girl on earth
if I still love that kind of a guy. After
everything he did to me!”
“Then put him in his place, and take your
mind off the past. Don’t allow him destroy
“OK, I will, thanks”
“Now I want you to smile”
“Thanks, your words already melted my
anger” I smiled
“I’m glad to hear that” he said.
We changed the topic and we talked for a
while. He also made plans for the weekend.
And I promise to see him on Saturday.
After that day, my ex kept on calling but I
ignored his calls.
To be continued…